Porn prevents the sexual abuse of children. I read this "fact" in a recent edition of 'Physhology Today' magazine. The article even cited two studies that seemed to support this. The...
It's been several weeks since my last blog. I hit a stump due to an incident in the communal showers. It was not nice. I started to write about it and after rewriting it about 8 times, I decided not t...
Most people who sexually assault a child say that it just happened. Even I believed that at first. But, after my studies on the subject, I have come to understand that I did have thoughts about what...
Ask yourself this, "What would you rather have, 1) a sex offender who was given 20 years sentence and serves all of his time and then is set free and has about a 30% chance of offending again after 3 ...
The most common type of sex offense against a child is that of a father molesting his child. Why is this? Does anyone have an idea? Aren't fathers supposed to protect their children? This is what ...
I was attending a prison function the other day (Nov. 2010) and was not surprised to learn that 95% of the people who sexually abuse were sexually abused themselves. I kind of figured this but never ...
A trigger is a clinical term used by medical and mental health professionals to indicate an event, either biological or behavioral, that predicates or precedes an event. In the case of sexual abuse, ...
Our next topic of discussion is probably, to me, the most important. Education. We (both parents, children, and those who have or might commit these offenses) all need to educate ourselves. Underst...
As part of protecting our children, we are always analyzing those whom we come into contact with and then determining whether or not they are safe for them. The obvious ones are easy. But the majori...
The first thing you should do in order to understand sex crimes is to throw out everything you have ever read about them in your favorite novel. Because, while there is no doubt that these crimes nee...
