My ex-wife had her first child on October 30th, 2011. I learned about it from my mom. It was a boy, but I couldn’t bear to find out his name. It would have upset me too much. She and I had our own names picked out. Sam for a boy. Natalie for a girl. She took a handful of pregnancy tests during our 14 years together, but they were always negative. And it sucks knowing she gets to experience it with someone else. A massage therapist with big holes in his earlobes. Get over it! I know, I know. It’s been over 3 years since she met the new guy. Time to move on. It’s tough though. A wise man said “the best way to get over someone is to get under someone new”. Well, that certainly won’t happen in here. At least not until they invent co-ed prisons!